August 17, 2016

Twenty Two Months

I can't believe we will have a 2 year old in TWO MONTHS! seriously.. where did this last year go?? we won't get into those questions right now..

mister mister has definitely been going through the door of the terrible twos. last week was a doozy. screaming, crying, hitting, tantrums galore. our patience was broken numerous times.. but thankfully, its seems the door has closed this week and we have our happy-funny boy back!


the STATS on Caius hasn't changed to much but his vocabulary and general knowledge sure has!

he counted to 9 all by himself, unprompted
he started to sing B-I-N-G-O all by himself, again unprompted, while getting ready for bed
he knows most construction vehicles and tractors {he's also obsessed with them}
he's doing so well with swimming now. he wears his puddle jumper and crawls through the water, sometimes floating on his own
he loves to go down the water slides with daddy 
we spent a weekend at the cabin playing in and on the water
we spent a night in Elbow, SK for a reunion
we finally have a week of holidays together next week and plan on spending majority at the lake! can't wait to step away and unwind with my favourite guys

July 14, 2016

Twenty One Months Old

This blog has officially become Caius' baby book. I wish I could keep on top of our life updates. It is nice to look back and remember Caius at his certain ages.

size 6 diapers
wearing mostly 2T clothes, 3T for sure with PJs
still no interest in potty training
sleeping in his crib {not switching anytime soon}
sleeping has greatly improved
has slept like a champ this last little while! {12 hours solid, past 8am.. BONUS!}
big fan of his sucky for sleeping and of course jubejube
SAYS
so many different things
pretty much what we ask him to say, he tries
identifies all family members {nana, papa, uncle D, baba, bella, izzie}
truck & tractor are his favourite words, he's constantly keeping an eye out for them while we drive now
he says thank you for absolutely everything
love you & night night bye are my favourites
if he "falls down", we ask him "are you okay" and he responds" ya k"
he has a new way of shouting "MOMMY!" now
daddy has been asked for immediately after he's been waking up
LOVES
trucks
tractors
trains
playing cars
dinosaurs
truck & tractor books
getting a theme here.... #suchaboy
stickers
playing in his clubhouse
swinging
playing with other kids {this is big because he's more timid around other kids}
golfing
the lake
OTHER
his temper is pretty fierce. we do have a timeout chair when he misbehaves or acts out
he tends to yell "NO!" at me and then come hit me {we do not tolerate this at all}
after timeout, he gives us a hug and kiss and we make sure we explain again, what he did wasn't okay
he is his daddys mini-me lately
anything daddy does, Caius has to
daddy is definitely the favourite right now {I broke my foot 3 weeks ago so mommy isn't very fun to play with}
driving with him has been pretty fun lately, he loves to point out any trucks & tractors
he's still doing so great with daycare
he also does so well with backup daycare and that's a HUGE relief
he had his 1st sleepover at nana & papas house while Neil & I went to Garth Brooks
he did so, so good and will be going again soon :))

we've really been enjoying the summer with Caius! going to the lake, playing outside, going to the swimming pool has been so much better this year!

July 5, 2016

Mom Truth

in honour of my favourite 2 moms of the Social Common, who have #MomTruth Fridays, I am doing my own mom truth today because I just feel like venting.

my toddler is kind of driving me crazy.

he's been starting the day crying pretty hard and not really calming down for the 13 things we try to offer him first thing in the mornings. cereal bar? milk? juice? water? toast? cartoons?? what?? what do you want that you're so unhappy when you wake up..?

diaper changes. fcuk I hate diaper changes. we've learnt our lesson in not doing a diaper change right when he gets out of the crib. that resulted in an epic fail. now we wait a bit, offer food & beverages and once he's distracted by some cartoons, then we diaper change. well... now instead of him being zoned in on the TV, he's screaming & kicking & thrashing like we're going to torture him. and he doesn't do a little cry or a little scream... it's enough to raise our blood pressure at 6:30am and be in a bad ass mood for the rest of the day

we leave the house around 7:20am to get to daycare. we typically don't talk on the way to daycare because he's watching a movie on the iPad and if I try to talk, he gives me the dirties. note taken: do not disturb while the Minions or Zootopia is playing. I give him a kiss and a hug and don't see him until close to 5pm.

him & Neil get home from daycare at the end of the day and he usually has sucky in his mouth when they come through the door. a sucky in the mouth usually means trouble of some sort. yesterday, they walked in and he was in tears whining. I asked what happened and apparently... when he leaves daycare, he sees his backpack and starts to whine for the damn sucky. Neil said no. he was in a great mood all day, he doesn't need his sucky. so majority of the drive home he's whining & crying and ended up having a meltdown because Neil wouldn't give it to him. enough that he actually had to pull over and take Caius out of the carseat to actually calm him down. unfcukingbelievable. has a great day at daycare, great mood, all good for her. and then within the 15mins. he's with his parents, life is awful.

suppertime is a challenge. he doesn't want to eat what I've made {chicken, spaghetti with peas & carrots}. he says "all done" without eating one bite. every which way we offer it to him, it's a no with his head going in the opposite direction of his spoon. yet he's pointing to the cupboard saying "cookie!" no. no cookies. it's suppertime, it's food he likes. I'm not making a grilled cheese or french fries to get him to have at least something for supper. so we try the airplane routine and thankfully that got 6-7 bites of chicken in him and that's it.

in the evening, I think he set a record with 3 timeouts in an hour. he screams "NOOOO!" at me for no reason and then proceeds to come over and hit me. he'll hit once and then he'll just basically tap on me like he's hitting me. totally unprovoked. totally for no reason. just what he's been doing. we do not tolerate this kind of behavior so off to the chair he goes. he sits for 1 minute, maybe 1.5 minutes. when it's done, he has to come off the chair, say sorry to us and give us a hug or kiss. what we're saying to him is obviously not working, and neither is the time outs at this point but again, we will not tolerate him to act that way so we're sticking with this punishment

the rest of the evening is an on and off battle of whining and crying, with a little bit of acting out just to top it off. bath time is always good going in and a fcuking gong show coming out. again, screaming bloody murder like we're going to torture him. this lasts while being dried off, getting his diaper on, lotion & pjs. fun... so much fun..

by this point, we put a movie on in the living room and just sit close by while he eats some cookies and apples. we're not disturbing him. we're not going to ask any questions or talk to him. we're just going to leave him be. a bit of a protest happens when it's time for bed. after stories, putting his sleep sack on, giving him his sucky & jubejube, we ask who he wants to put him to bed. surprisingly he chooses daddy. when he chooses daddy, just as I get ready to walk away, he changes his mind and comes to mommy. he cuddles in close and says night night to daddy. last night, he fully wanted daddy. I got a kiss and "love you" about 6 times while waving "nigh night bye". mommy was dismissed, daddy was the chosen one.

I walked out of his room wishing he had chosen me because I hate to end the night feeling crappy. we get such limited time with him because we both work full time and it absolutely sucks having our day start and end with a crabby, mean, toddler. we want to play and have fun with him in the 3 hours we have together, but instead we get the toddler who acts like he hates us. I know this is just a dark cloud that's hanging over us for now and hopefully in a few days we'll be back to all good, but damn... it just totally puts me in the worst mood.

and then I look at photos of him on my phone, watch videos, and text Neil about him and I again start to miss him so much and can't wait to see him. I want to hand in my parent card some days. I want to sleep to feel refreshed instead of re-tired. I also just want a little boy who's good for us like he is for his daycare provider. I can't win lately but I obviously have to keep trying. that's parenthood right?

May 16, 2016

Nineteen Months Old

I've fallen into a bit of a rut when it comes to blogging! I've thought about giving it up but when I look back and read old posts, all those memories come flooding back and I really don't want to lose those as Caius is getting older and busier


27lbs., 32" tall
size 5 diapers {going to need to switch to a 6 very soon}
has 0 interest in potty training
fights diaper changes 95% of the time {that scream.. ugh, its awful}
wearing 2T/3T clothing
size 6/7 shoes
sleeps from 7:30pm-5/6am {some nights he still wakes, some night he doesn't}
takes one 2.5-3 hour nap a day
he is still an overall super crappy sleeper
SAYS
ba-ball {basketball}
please & thank you
more
no
ah-pane {airplane}
dinosaur
choo-choo
trees
tweet tweet {birds}
does all his animal sounds
he makes the "muah" sound when giving kisses
LOVES
starting the day in our bed watching cartoons
smoothies & snacking
watching & playing sports
playing with his lawnmower, cozy truck & push car outside
kicking a ball around & passing
his finding dory water table
bouncing in his trampoline
the YouTube kids app
colouring & playing with chalk
helping daddy cook/BBQ
to wave bye all the time {even if he or anyone else isn't leaving} 
swimming
playing at the park {swings and walking up ramps are his favourite} 
OTHER
he attended his 1st wedding and stayed up way past his bedtime
he had his 1st big road trip for a family funeral
went to a car show at easter
graduated swimming lessons #2
started a new daycare and has been doing FANTASTIC! 
enjoys banana's now
starting to dislike more & more meals that we offer him
is super into airplanes and trains
starts to run when we say "on your mark, get set, GO!"

He's been quite the stinker for us lately. Definitely entering the toddler phase of life... please pray for us. he is stubborn & firery!